OK FATHERS, THIS IS TONY RENEE SMITH, THE PUBLISHER OF THIS BLOG. I KNOW WHAT IT TAKES TO RAISE A FAMILY, FIRST AND FOREMOST YOU HAVE TO BE ABLE TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF FIRST AND THEN YOU BRING A FAMILY INTO THE WORLD. IT IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO, AND I WOULD NOT HAVE IT ANY OTHER WAY. I COME FIRST AND THEN I CAN TAKE ON THE RESPONSIBILITY OF RAISING A FAMILY THE WAY I NEED TO. THAT WAY IS NOT TO EVER HAVE MY FAMILY GO WITHOUT ANYTHING, ESPECIALLY A FATHER.